Can you remember a time when you seemed to do all the right things and still got the wrong results?  You have my sympathy -- and join the club.  Here's a deeper look.

There's nothing quite like too much to do to cause a stress pile-up -- is there? -- and nothing like a stress pile-up to degrade our ability to get things done.  It's an endless cycle.  Stress impairs ability and impaired ability leads to stress. No wonder we get bogged down.

As someone who, since 1990, has worked professionally in the field of stress relief, I've seen a lot of stressed-out people -- and I've been one, myself, at times, so I know what it's like.  There's nothing like going through a prolonged rough patch in life to get us motivated to find relief. That's what happened, to me.

In answer to what I saw (and see) as a pandemic of stress, I developed a framework, for Balanced Intelligence that almost anyone can employ when stress piles up. In the time of a short reset-break, the mind clears and thinking gets more lucid. The emotions come rest and natural creative intelligence comes forward.  Things get done more easily when the mind is freed of overload.

The Balanced Intelligence (BI) framework disarms stress at the root -- at the subconscious level, upstream of the symptoms of stress, where stress-triggers live. The advantage?  Immediate relief.  The long-term advantage:  we go into stress reactions less deeply, get over them more quickly, and handle situations, better, overall.

"Problems cannot be solved from the same level of consciousness that created them." ~~ Albert Einstein

The Balanced Intelligence framework moves beyond conventional coping strategies by focusing on dissolving stress patterns affecting your internal operating system's faculties of intelligence.

The Balanced Intelligence Resets

The core of Balanced Intelligence (BI) lies in activating and aligning four fundamental faculties of our intelligence operating system: attention, intention, memory, and imagination.

These four, quintessential expressions of intelligence operate interdependently as aspects of our day-to-day mind.  They are the basis of all forms of intelligence.

The flagship process within this framework is The Pattern Release Reset, also known as The Gold Key Release.

How the Pattern-Release Reset Works

The Pattern-Release Reset (Gold Key Release) is a de-stressor and refresher -- quick and clean. 

This reset guides your attention through a precise sequence of mind-prompts that free and balance the inner integrity of your intelligence.  A mind-prompt is a series of words that reveal stress triggers in such a way that you can disarm them, easily.

It directly addresses imbalances among the four fundamental faculties, imbalances that give rise to mental noise, energy-draining emotions, and counterproductive habits and behaviors seemingly beyond our control. 

The procedure dissolves the binding tendency of experiences (that makes us feel trapped) and patterned suffering (that makes feeling trapped into a torment), to restore freedom of intelligence (our preference for right action) so we feel in control of our own faculties.

Freedom of intelligence occurs through recognition of stress patterns and their release into relaxation, rather than through added effort or trying to maintain some kind of attitude.

The relief has been described as feeling lighter and clearer, as in your before-stress state.  Your intelligence has room to operate, again, instead of being hemmed in by habitual ways of perceiving and operating.

Two Other Processes within The Balanced Intelligence Framework

• The Relationship Revealer
• The Dilemma Buster

The Relationship Revealer clarifies hidden relationships between paired issues, so you can navigate between them, intelligently. 

The Dilemma Buster resolves self-conflict, confusion, or ambivalence, so you get past being stalled between alternatives.

Balanced Intelligence -- Distinctly Different from Common Antidotes to Stress

BI Resets offer relief from common, persistent stress-related challenges by dissolving the internal friction that blocks natural functioning, allowing our intelligence to operate at a higher, more natural (freed-of-stress) level.

Benefits and Results Include:

• Immediate and Cumulative Relief 
  The work provides relief from overload, frustration, and confusion.
• Mental Clarity and Better Decision Making 
  Clients experience a swift return to mental clarity, relief from information overload, less mental noise and better decisions.
• Emotional and Physical Ease 
  The approach transforms emotional pressure into emotional ease, stability and physical relaxation.  Sighs of relief are common during a reset.
• Spontaneous Creative Intelligence  
  When we need creative intelligence, stress blocks it.  When stress relaxes, creative flow and ingenuity arise naturally and spontaneously, without effort, strategic thinking, or forcing.

These resets provide breathing room when information or analysis is inconclusive and you feel you must make a decision, anyway.  

They transform symptoms like overwhelm, depression, trauma, anxiety, and stage fright into trust of our own intelligence and level-headed readiness for whatever comes next.

Dissolving Stress vs. Coping 
or Managing Stress

The BI approach fundamentally differs from conventional methods by targeting the triggers of stress at the root rather than managing resulting symptoms or resorting to strategies for escape.

Balanced Intelligence Dissolves Subconscious Stress

 • Dissolves the Binding Force: BI works upstream of our usual thoughts, reactions, and limiting memories, to target the unconscious stress triggers that fuel overload and inadvertently lead to self-sabotage.

• It dissolves the binding force of circumstances directly, meaning you feel you have a leg up on circumstances before they have changed.

• Removes Impediments: BI relieves people of internal impediments so that their native intelligence can operate freely.

This approach avoids the "traffic jam" created when intentions conflict with stress-patterns that resist change.

• Recognition and Relaxation, Not Effort: This process is about recognition and release, turning unconscious distress into calm poise at balance.  Working harder and pushing through is a state of more effort, whereas release is a state of less effort at a higher level of effectiveness.

• Get Lasting Results quickly without self-monitoring or continual mental discipline.

Conventional Strategies for Escaping Stress

• Managing Symptoms: Many conventional approaches aim to help people manage stress or gain insight, but they don't necessarily dissolve the underlying tangle.

• Fighting Resistance: Methods like affirmations try to work around a negative state by replacing it with a desired, imagined outcome without first dissolving the resistance, leading to friction and wasted energy -- similar to pushing on the accelerator pedal and the brake simultaneously, while steering in a new direction.

• Trying to "Fix" Thoughts: Most people try to "think their way" out of stress or distress, which often just doubles down on the overactive mental machinery creating the trap.

This is why BI is explicitly stated as not being therapy, mindset work, positive thinking, or motivational coaching; it's direct intelligence training.  Mindsets, thought patterns, and motivation change automatically.

The distinction is crucial: conventional methods often involve a continuous effort to impose a preferred state over a troubled one, while Balanced Intelligence involves a precise process to dissolve troublesome patterns entirely, allowing your natural state of intelligence and clarity to operate spontaneously, when you face what are otherwise repetitive challenges.

Think of it this way: If your car keeps veering to the right, conventional methods might teach you to white-knuckle the steering wheel and resist the pull.  That's analogous to breathing techniques or positive affirmations to help you counteract stress that pulls you off-course.  The Balanced Intelligence approach restores alignment by adjusting the underlying mental mechanics in minutes, and allows the car (your mind) to go where you want it to go without constantly monitoring and correcting.

You experience an overall decrease of stress and resolution of the specific issues you have addressed.

If this sounds like exactly what you need, schedule a conversation to get answers to your questions and learn of opportunities to attend a free introductory masterclass.

Lawrence Gold is a clinical somatic educator with more than three decades of experience helping people transform stress and pain into clarity and comfort.  His methods turn recurring reactions into quick recovery of emotional ease, mental clarity, and creative intelligence -- with nothing having to change, first.   He teaches leaders, educators, and professionals how to shift from overwhelm to clear, grounded presence, in minutes.